How Should You React If Your Ex Girlfriend Calls You

Published: 04th August 2010
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So what should you do if your ex girlfriend calls you up? Not just another girl that you have dumped, but a girl that you still have feelings for, or whom you really regret breaking up with.

This is probably one of the hardest response required by a man, since whatever reaction that you have at that point of time, is completely known by your ex girlfriend, who is hearing every breath that you are taking.

Men generally react in different ways. Some men will try to appear cool and aloof, while some will try to get her back, by using cheesy lines. Some guys will just remain friendly. Anyway, no matter how you react, the woman on the other line will feel how you feel.

In fact, if you are single currently, and you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend, then the phone call should be a surprise for you, or more of a morale booster.

1) If she broke up with you

So have you ever wondered why she wants to call you, when she wanted to break up initially? Well, it is highly likely that she has regretted her decision, and would like to patch up.

Women just have a soft heart. If guys manage to overcome the barrier that she has purposely set up, the woman will still care for you, and that is just women, I would say.

Most of the time, women consider the fact of breaking up with their boyfriends as a bad decision. If you are the one being dumped by a girl, then honestly, you are a bad boyfriend, or there is another better guy in front of her.

Once she is set on breaking up with you, then she will not change her mind.

So, why not just tell her that you are currently busy, and have a life of your own? In this way, you will let her know that you no longer need her. Can you imagine patching up with her, with bad memories of her dumping you?

2) If you broke up with her

Well, there are just two reasons. She wants to hear that you have regretted your decision, or she just wants to be sarcastic that she has found a much better boyfriend than you!

Well, if she does not mention about having a better boyfriend, just be friendly towards her. After all, she must be an attractive lady for you to fall in love with previously. If you still love her, why not just let go of your male ego, and continue the relationship from where it has ended?

3) If it is a mutual break up

Remember that no matter what happened before, both of you once have good memories of the past relationship. So, respect her as a friend, and ask her what has happened to her since then, and what has happened to you. Even if you have a new girlfriend, let her know.

To a guy, it is sometimes easier to talk to a woman, as guys do not really share their emotions on a deep level. So having females as friends are very important!

No matter what is the reason of breaking up, you got to maintain your cool, and let her know that you are feeling all right. Let her know that she has made the wrong move when the relationship ended, and not calling you as a jerk when she spoke about you to her friends.

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